I have a big interest and natural thought process for human psychology especially in terms of understanding people’s motivations and therefore predict their behavior. It comes out of needing this skill as a survival skill in my younger days but it has also turned into a genuine interest.
Over the years I have talked and discussed my practicing of the Hot Wife experience on message boards and in other avenues. I also have read other blogs over the years and come to the conclusion people into this do it for different reasons. Wow, was that brilliant insight. Stay tuned for my theory that two plus two equal four.
Here are some of the reasons I see:
1) Fantasy Land – These are the people pretending their life. It is the male cuckold who is always claiming his wife is having unprotected sex with an unlimited amount of strangers and having children that are not theirs usually of different color. It is a woman who is bored and becomes a serial internet dater by creating profiles on personal sites and blogging about her experiences that are of the write for months then describe some magical meeting then the person is gone from their life. I mean spend months to have a one nighter? It is tough to get a man to complete one sentence when they know it is just a one time shot. They never meet and the overly romantic story is to keep their readers thinking they are being honest.
2) Lust of the Dance – I think this makes up most of what I read about. Women for the sex is pretty much a byproduct of what they want and pursue. These women love the whole chase and pursuit that men go through to get with them. It makes them feel sexy, wanted and some excitement to their lives. They are hot wives as they do have sex with some men but they are often event based and each time even with the same man needs some form of buildup. I think these are the female equivalents to many of the men that go to strip clubs. Not about being horny but enjoying a little escapism of a pretty female acting like they are interesting, glad to be talking/dancing to them and sexually desirable.
3) Flirtatious Fun – Men and women that love flirting and teasing from the physical sensations it gives them which sex being the nice climax to the whole thing. These are the more hands on and less serious Lust for the Dance types.
4) Excitement Addicts – Simply put same old same old is boring and something new and different is not and therefore better.
5) Just Sex Please – This is the group I belong to. It is about the enjoyment of fucking and how fucking makes us feel. The pursuit and capture is the work that has to go into it to get our reward. We are far more likely to try to have one or more regulars then constantly be in a flirt mode and make them pursue us type dance.
1 year ago