We are preached by society that people and especially women are not suppose to be sexually objectified. Yet my entire life has shown me that is not only what most people have done to me that at some point I learned that I really preferred that over anything else. But society also preaches we are so many things at the same time. So why cannot be sexually objectified be one of those things and if we excel in one of those things and enjoy it why cannot we specialize in it?
Between my childhood abuse, endless therapy sessions, my years as a stripper and now being a madly in love hot wife no one who tells me or preached to me that my enjoyment of being sexually objectified and pursuing what makes me happy and in a good place for the first time in my life is so bad. I mean my whole life so many people have made this their preferred view of me so why should I be ashamed and heaven forbid I actually enjoy being objectified.
Of course the argument is always one note simple. People and especially women who if you allow them to do it to you then they can do it to me. Well sisters I am one chick that had to fight hard in her life just to be in a good and happy place. I have no interest in fighting your battles for you. The problem with these women is they want the good without the bad. They want to dress in a way to feel and look sexy but they do not want just any man to stare at their tits or ass. Well it does not work that way. They want to fuck to satisfy their lust and cravings but heaven forbid others who want that as well approach them let alone seek out doing this with them when they are not attracted or not in the mood.
So sorry you cannot have it both ways. If you want to feel and look sexy, if you want to look attractive to attract a potential other for whatever reason including monogamous long term relationship, you have to accept that men and some women will treat you in a sexually objectified way when the mood strikes or even all the time.
I am fine with you getting mad when you wear a breast revealing blouse and men stare at them. Just be fine when I do it and when the men stare I smile back and give them a better view. Just because you fuck one man when you are in the mood does not mean I cannot fuck more then one man so I appreciate a man hitting on me and being direct.
I am not proud nor am I ashamed that my holes need a lot of cock. It is just me!
1 year ago