Get Real

Thinking about some of the games, lies and clichés the genders churn out about each other from reading this blog entry from The Errant Wife and the entry she was inspired to write her entry that I have no interest in giving the man free advertising although you can click on it from her blog.

Here are some random things off the top of my head.

-Yes, that woman always showing a lot of skin could be a cock crazed slut. She could also just be always hot or just an attention addict who might be only a cock tease that has hardly any sexual experiences. By the way that quiet woman over in the corner dressed for church could be cold and frigid she could also be the biggest slut there and has done things to make a porn star faint but does not need to advertise.

-The year is 2009, that girlfriend you have that is well into her twenties or older, do not believe for a second that your load was the first she took in her mouth if she tells you that. Just understand she really likes you and be grateful she is willing.

-Guys if you are too obsessed with rocking your girl’s world the odds are you are not going to rock their world because you are probably going to stress her out with your expectations.

-Love for a man and their sexual performance with us is only one part of a female’s sexuality. How we feel and feel we look can be critical as well and not dependent just on our man’s view but other people and women. There is a reason why women dress up more in public and that does not make them a slut or an attention whore just because.

-Often when a group of men go to a strip club together it is the married men that do not want to leave and the single men having to drag them out despite what they tell their wives. The single men think they can come back anytime. The married men do not know if they will ever be back.

-Women have sex drives. Men who think their awesomeness turns nun like thoughts of a girlfriend to porn like thoughts seek psychological help. Women are well aware of just do the slut but marry the virgin male thoughts and many when wanting to settle down will play coy with their sexuality, preferences and experiences. I do not see any winners here myself between the men who want that and the women pretending to be that.

-Size and girth does matter to a certain extent for most women. It just not the biggest or the fattest means much if anything at all for most. Most women while it may vary, do have a too small or thin base level. But for most other factors including how do you use it makes almost all men range from good enough to oh my.

-I have wiggled on or just flat out fucked many men in my life. I do not buy into the theory that black men on the whole have significantly larger cocks then white men. My only judgment is that there are fewer black men with cocks on the smaller side.

-Not every or even many or a few white women attracted to black men because of size or other sexuality myths. People are attracted to people for many reasons such as non racists open minded people might be attracted to other open minded non racist people or grew up in melting pot places and not just surrounded by our own race.

-Cum on our face, tits and other body parts is not particularly hot for most women. For many of us though the man who finds this hot and enjoys it that reason can make it hot for us.

-Men cumming too quickly can be a problem if it is standard operating procedure but a man cumming too quickly on occasion can be hot if it is because I think I got him that hot and bothered. Just as a man that takes forever to cum is not always cool and can sometimes make us feel we are not doing it for them.

-Yes, a screwed up chick with self esteem issues can be a freak in bed. They can also be completely normal (whatever that is) in bed and be too afraid to ever bed another. Men you are almost just remembering the sex with the screwed up sex, forgetting the normal and of course never had the one afraid.

-I have never had cum taste so bad that I could not handle it in my mouth or swallow it. Cum in the mouth and swallowing it is more of a psychological thing then anything and if the head believe something then it needs to be respected and changed with effort and patience.